I know you think you're doing the right thing for her, but you are not.. By invading her online territory, you are making her lose her remaining shreds of respect for you, and driving her away from you. By banishing me from your home, you are making her more willing to leave the house, and be further away from anywhere where you fell you can keep her "safe." Do you realize that she has cut herself more in the past 48 hours than she has in the past three years?
Melissa is not a junkie, or a drunk. She has a mild drug habit compared to most drug users I've encountered. She's not a perfect angel, but she certainly doesn't deserve the shabby treatment she's received since thursday afternoon. I can tell you this: telling someone they are worthless or no good is no way to encourage them to get a job, grow up, or be responsible. That's the way to drive them completely in the direction you think that she's already going.
For the record, I always liked and got along with you, and it's a shame things are at this point. However, in the future, if you have a problem with me, look me in the face and tell me what it is. I'm a gainfully employed, intelligent, contributing member of society, and I don't appreciate being used as a fucking scapegoat so you don't have to own up to the fact that you fucked up your daughter's mental health long before I met her.
I'n other news, we saw Mark today!!! Yay! Pics to come.